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10 Sharp Ways to Win Friends and Influential People

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10 Sharp Ways to Win Friends and Influential People

Win Friends and Influential People After you graduate from college,  it becomes harder to make friends with people who are not your colleagues. But much of success is about building a connection and making friends in your industry, and that entails making people like you.

Win Friends and Influential People

But how do you go about making friends as an adult? How would you make people like you? It seems like a one-sided process, but there are universal procedures you can utilize to help you make small talk a bit easier

1. Become genuinely interested in other people: You can make more friends in two months by being interested and involved in them, than in two years by making them interested in you.

The only way to make excellent, lasting friendships is to learn to be truly interested in them and their interests. We all are aware of people who try their whole lives to get people interested in them it’s all the wasted effort! People are just interested in themselves. They think so much about themselves morning, noon and night.

When do you look at a photo of a group that you are part of, who do you look at initially? If you want people to be interested and engrossed in you, you must be first interested in them. Whether we are beggars or kings, we like those who have high regard for us.

2. Happiness is not based on the outside situation, but rather on inward attitudes. Smiles are free to give and have an amazing capability to make others feel wonderful. Smile in everything that you need to do.

Actions are quit louder than words, “I am happy to see you,” “Your company makes me happy,” etc. evidently, it needs to be a genuine, wide and natural smile that seduces and comforts, not a mechanical and fake smile that irritates instead of satisfying.

3. Remember that a person’s name is, to that person, the sweetest and most relevant sound in any language: “The normal person is more interested in their own name than in all the other names in the world put together.

People love their names so much that they often donate a large sum of money just to have a building named after them. We can make people feel really valued and important by recalling their name.

4. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves: The simplest way to become a good conversationalist is to become a good listener.

To be a good listener, we must really care about what people have to say. Many times people don’t want an interesting conversation partner; they just need someone who will listen to them.

5. Talk is based on the other person’s interest: The royal road to a person’s heart is to talk about the things he or she loves most. If we talk to people about what they are interested in, they will feel esteemed and value us in return.

6. Start with questions which the other person will answer yes: Do not begin by emphasizing the part in which we and the other person differ. By emphasizing and continuous emphasis on the things on which we agree.

People must be started in the confirmatory direction and they will often accept and follow readily. Never tell someone they are wrong, but rather guide them where we would like them to go with questions that they will answer “yes” to.

7. Make the other person feel important and do it truthfully: The golden rule is to treat other people how we would love to be treated. We love to feel important and so does everyone too.

People will discuss to us for hours if we let them talk about themselves. If we can make people feel important in a sincere and grateful way, then we will win all the friends we could ever dream of.

It is through complimenting It is not a matter here of smooth talk, false or otherwise, which is hazardous and often ends up coming back to bite the sycophant.

It is a matter of a new mental approach, of a new way of life finding the good character in others and truthfully complimenting them, making them aware of the appreciation we have for them. Genuine praise is the honey of human relations – everyone sorts it and deeply appreciates it.

8. When you want to win someone over, avoid bringing up issues that you don’t agree with, from the very start. center instead on things you identify with and emphasize those.

The point is to prove that you have goals in common and disagrees only on the means to reach them, and to do that, say “yes” as early as possible, and above all try to evade having them say “no.”

9. In actual fact, nobody wins these battles! Because if you lose, you lose and if you win, you also lose because you have established to your adversary that he is wrong, you have made him feel mediocre, you have hurt his self-esteem and his pride, You must, therefore, choose a fabulous and theoretic triumphant, or genuine agreement. The two seldom go together. You may well be right, a hundred times right, if you have to fight to establish it and change your adversaries mind, your efforts will be as useless as if you were wrong.

But what should you do then if there is a difference? The idea is to receive the dispute. The dispute is a chance to enrich yourself, to discover a new point of view that had not occurred to you before. Don’t give in to your initial impulse,  beat your anger, start by listening, ·  Promise to reason the ideas of your adversaries, and study them cautiously, genuinely thank your adversaries for their interest, postpone your actions to allow both parties present the time to examine the problem in detail.

10. Be fast to recognize Your Own Mistakes   

Nothing will make people less cynical and more agreeable than you being humble and rational enough to admit your own mistakes. Having strong and steady personal and professional relationships relies on you taking accountability for your actions, especially your mistakes. Nothing will help end tension or a disagreement more than a swift recognition and apology on your part.

CSN Team

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